When you have an obsession to please others, the ability to make a rational decision on your behalf is next to impossible. You would rather sacrifice everything around you to accommodate and please, even if it doesn’t add up. Even if it was best to walk away and cut the ties that could lead to social destructiveness in your heart. Sometimes it is more important to be honest with yourself than not to be. Obsession to please others is not a good thing. Obsession sometimes breeds disappointment when you can’t please.